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Heba Kotb is a conservative Muslim, wears an Islamic head scarf, and goes on television once a week to talk—frankly and in great detail—about sex. Big Talk, Kotb answers questions from Muslims all over the Middle East about the most intimate bedroom issues with an openness that is shocking and revolutionary in a society where discussing the subject is taboo.
She does it by talking about sex in an Islamic light, arguing that the faith is in favour of pleasure for both men and women, with one important caveat—that it be only in the context of marriage.“I’m very proud of my religion,†Kotb said in an interview at Cairo University, where she teaches forensic medicine. “My studies revealed to me more and more how Islam was ahead in all sexual matters … I discovered that Islam understood sex long before the world.â€
she told an example, Islam “stresses the importance of foreplay,” Kotb said, and she often stresses to listeners that women should also enjoy sex.Kotb’s frankness is a hit in a region where sex education is minimal, male-female contact is often discouraged and talk on the subject is usually in hushed tones, allowing myths to circulate freely.
She lectured in Saudi Arabia and Yemen recently, where she said many men in the audience where shocked, while women—some with veiled faces—bombarded her with questions.Kotb married with three daughters, studied sexology with Maimonides University, and combined it with her own knowledge of her religion to produce a dissertation titled ‘Sexuality in Islam’.